Sun Oct 01, 2006 6:43 pm
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Sun Oct 01, 2006 7:34 pm
Kyra wrote:Just because something didn't work for you doesn't mean it won't work for others. Do NOT assume things about other people's lives; you have no idea how hard some people's lives are, and don't tell them "OMG YOU'VE NEVER BEEN BULLIED BADLY." You have no idea just how bad some of these people HAVE been.
Sun Oct 01, 2006 8:47 pm
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Sun Oct 01, 2006 10:14 pm
moihaha wrote:I'm really sorry for those who will take it badly, but clearly, most of those who respond never where bullied badly. It's COMPLETLY FALSE that if you ignore the bullier, he will get bored and stop. And it's COMPLETLY FALSE either that you can ignore it and get over it. I'm sorry, but you can't. If it's about one kid once or twice telling you names, and if you have a strong social background to rely on, it's ok. But when it's down to the point people keep following you, treathen and ambush you, you have to react differently.
Sun Oct 01, 2006 10:45 pm
moihaha wrote:I'm really sorry for those who will take it badly, but clearly, most of those who respond never where bullied badly. It's COMPLETLY FALSE that if you ignore the bullier, he will get bored and stop. And it's COMPLETLY FALSE either that you can ignore it and get over it. I'm sorry, but you can't. If it's about one kid once or twice telling you names, and if you have a strong social background to rely on, it's ok. But when it's down to the point people keep following you, treathen and ambush you, you have to react differently.
Mon Oct 02, 2006 2:08 am
Igg wrote:Setekh wrote:To clarify.
I'm in a bit of an angsty mood right now for reasons I cannot go into.
I'm sorry for being such a pratt today, and I would like to apologise.
However, sometimes the only thing you can do is fight back.
Whoever said "ignore them and they'll go away" was never bullied badly.
both of my siblings were bullied and they fought back.
I did not.
Care to guess which one of the three of us is stuck at home, afraid to get a job and wishing he had the courage?
I don't think ignoring them makes them go away, but if you can truely ignore them and rise above it, then it won't matter to you anymore.
Mon Oct 02, 2006 3:23 am
Kyra wrote:I find it odd that I, of all people, have not been bullied about my hair. Makes no sense. >_>
Mon Oct 02, 2006 3:35 am
moihaha wrote:To report the attacks is necessary. Those kids who bully others must be cared about, their parents must be informed that their kids are bullies, they must understand themselves that they can AND they will be punished for it....other kids must learn from the start that attacking other for the sake of it is NOT ok.
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